Things to do in your 20s for a successful future

Men in your 20s, disappear for 6 months, do this and you'll retire filthy rich in the next 10 years...

1. Move out of your hometown

Leave the typical norm you grew up in and seek new challenge.

You're a product of;

• What you've experienced

• Who you hang out with

• What you were told

This forms the basis of your reality

Instead, move out and you'll learn how to be independent

You'll expand your imagination when you;

• Meet new people

• Seek new challenge

• Experience new realities.

2. Connect with high value people

Before you consider this, first priotitize your self-care;

• Dress clothes that fit

• Invest in expensive shoes

• Have a good hair cut

• Smell nice. 

Then equip yourself with social skills to help you interact with ease

Learn how to;

• Start and hold a conversation

• Ask questions and respond right

• Target and approach valuable people

Places to meet high value people:

• Attend conferences and seminars

• At the gym

• Online

Where else?

3. Work out 7x a week 

If you can't work out everyday, how can you expect to even be rich?

Set aside 40 mins a day to do this;

• Hit 300 push ups (30×10)

• Do 200 squats (20×10)

• Perform planks (1min × 2)

In 6 months, you'll have formed chest, strong arms and legs.

 4. Learn a high income skill.

You don't have to complicate it, do this;

• Choose a skill

• Select 10-20 Youtube channel teaching the skill

• Binge watch it for 100 days

• Start to practice as you get better

I recommend these 5 skills.

Learn how to;

• Trade

• Code

• Do sales

• Copywrite

• Grow a youtube channel

Fact: A skill is 10x more valuable than a degree

5. Learn how to invest

Start by investing in yourself, you're your own first priority.

Do this;

• Eat healthy

• Invest in your bed (sleep like a king)

• Take yourself on a solo date

Then, invest in;

• Courses

• Mentorships

• Appreciating assets

• Open 15+ businesses

Tips to improve sleep quality

If you sleep less than 7 hours a night, read this:

When you regularly get less than 7 hours of sleep, you increase the risk of:

• Stroke

• Depression

• Weight gain

• Loss of memory

• Heart complications

• Increased blood pressure

Apply these 10 habits and you’ll experience the best sleep you’ve ever had…

1) Journaling

Stimulation, like TV or playing on your phone, creates open loops.

Putting them in a journal closes them.

How?

Journaling lets your mind actively come up with solutions.

Once it’s written down, your brain sees it as stored.

As a result, your mind rests.

Of course, cutting out TV, phone, not watching news is still the best way to avoid simulation.

Read a book. It's calming, no blue light exposure, increases vocabulary, enhances brain power. 

2) Limit blue light before bed

This artificial light comes from screens like your:

• TV

• Phone

• Computer

It makes your brain think it’s daytime and suppresses melatonin.

Avoid blue light 1 hour before trying to sleep.

If you can’t, invest in blue-light glasses.

Jump to end of point 1.

Read a book! 

3) Cut caffeine early

Caffeine destroys the quality of your sleep.

This stimulant blocks your adenosine production.

What’s adenosine?

The hormone responsible for promoting sleep.

 Caffeine will stay in your body for roughly 10 hours.

So if you go to bed at 10pm:

Don’t have caffeine past 11am.

8 hours of quality sleep beats 4 cups of coffee any day.

4) Sleep at a consistent time

Sleep is regulated by your circadian rhythm.

This is your system's clock.

If you go to bed early one night, then late the next, you throw it off.

Create a regular time to go to bed and wake up.

You’ll fall asleep quickly and wake up energized.

5) Optimize your room

To optimize for sleep, focus on:

1) Light

2) Comfort

3) Temperature

The easiest way to cover all three:

• Blackout curtains 

• An air conditioner or fan

• A high-quality pillow and mattress 

This is an investment in your health, not an expense.

6) Let your mind relax

The open loops created by stimulating activities gives your brain a problem to solve.

It keeps the analytical part of your mind engaged.

These “problems” keep you awake.

Schedule a zero-work time 1 hour before bed.

Your brain needs the break.

7) Meditation

Take 10 minutes out of your day to meditate.

In many studies, meditation has been shown to:

• Reduce anxiety 

• Calm your mind

• Lower your heart rate

Which all helps you fall (and stay) asleep.

Great apps if you’re new to meditation are Calm and Headspace.

8) Get sunlight

Get natural light for 5-15 minutes after waking.

This helps your circadian rhythm know the day is starting. 

And by doing so, regulates your sleep cycle and makes it easier to fall asleep.

The earlier the light exposure, the earlier you fall asleep.

9) Keep temperatures cool

The optimal temperature to keep your room is:

60°F to 67°F (15.6°C to 19.4°C)

This helps your body stay cool, and at a temperature that promotes sleep.

Invest in a portable A/C unit or fan if necessary.

If you live in a warm climate, you don't need to lower temperature all the way to 16-19 degrees. Lowering temperature by a few degrees than ambient temperature is more than enough. It's the relative temperature that counts as comfort to your brain and body. 

In fact, lowering temperature by too much can have opposite effect as too much cold will make you uncomfortable.

A/C means closed windows. This will also help you quieten your environment if you stay in a noisy place. Noise is also a stimulant and lowering noise helps quality of sleep immensely.

Make sure to get fresh air circulation in the room during daytime to avoid the room become muggy and stuffy.

10) Don’t exercise at night

The body prepares for sleep by reducing your:

• Heart rate

• Brain waves

• Body temperature

But exercise increases your:

• Heart rate

• Levels of arousal

• Body temperature

Make it a rule to not exercise 3 hours before bed.

10 tips for consistent sleep:

1) Journal

2) Reduce blue light

3) Cut caffeine early

4) Sleep consistently

5) Revamp your room

6) Let your mind relax

7) Meditate before bed

8) Get sunlight exposure

9) Cool your temperature

10) Don’t exercise late at night

Cheat codes I know now I wish I knew earlier

1. Use workouts to gain muscle, diet to burn fat and cardio to improve your overall health & longevity.

2. Eat a high protein diet comprised of whole foods for the best body composition.

3. When lifting weights use your mind to muscle connection to increase muscle contraction.

4. Upon waking drink water before coffee.

5. Delay coffee 1-2 hours upon waking. This lets cortisol clear out adenosine, which can lead to sustained energy into the afternoon.

6. Use your nose for smelling & breathing. Use your mouth for talking, tasting & eating.

7. Mouth breathing disrupts sleep, ruins oral health & can cause sleep apnea. Mouth taping at night helped me solve this.

8. Mouthwash is the biggest dental scam. Kills your oral microbiota. Avoid.

9. Avoid fluoride in your toothpaste. Use ones that have hydroxyapatite.

10. Sleep at the same times every day. Align your body with the rising & setting of the sun.

11. The 321 method for better sleep. No eating 3 hours before bed. No liquids 2 hours before. No screens 1 hour before.

12. If you look at screens at night wear bluelight blockers.

13. You sleep for 1/3 of your entire life. Learn how to optimize it and make it make it as awesome as possible.

14. Memory is fallible. When you have a good idea write it down immediately.

15. Your best ideas come in the shower, walking or in the gym. Keep a notepad ready.

16. Peel a boiled egg by rolling it around your plate for awhile until all the shells are cracked. This makes it easy to remove the complete shell in one shot.

17. Close the toilet bowl when flushing to avoid particles of filth sprouting up into your bathroom atmosphere.

18. The more you criticizes others the more you criticize yourself. If you want to judge yourself less judge others less.

19. Stay away from people who always complain. They are energy vampires.

20. Stay away from people who gossip. They are most likely gossiping about you.

21. Learn a martial art to increase discipline, confidence & release stress.

22. Seek rejection daily. This numbs you to the feeling. Also, you only get what you ask for.

23. Take complete ownership for every result in your life. The only constant in every result is you.

24. When someone is walking in your path look at their shoulder closest to you. 9 times out of 10 they will move out of the way.

25. Be in rooms where you're the dumbest person. Workout at gyms where you're the least fit person.

26. When you feel an emotion don't numb it. It'll only make it feel worse later. Feel it fully then let it go. Emotion is energy. We must let it pass.

27. You can tell a lot about someones character by how they treat service staff.

28. Money & alcohol amplify who a person is at their core.

29. When someone shows you their true colours believe them.

30. A few months a year go monk mode. Eliminate all distractions & vices and use that energy to build your health & business.

31. Who you choose as a partner will determine your level of peace, wealth & happiness.

32. Your perception is reality. If you want a better reality change your perception.

33. You'll never be as young as you are now. Do what you feel you're meant to do.

34. Your best decisions come from stillness. Stillness is amplified in nature & meditation.

35. You can only get stronger when you face problems in life. Embrace the fucking struggle.

36. Show up up, do the work & seek ways to grow. Do this every day & watch what happens.

37. Trust people who say "I don't know" more than the people who have all the answers.

38. Seek feedback from those in the arena. Not from the ones who are boo'ing from the cheap seats.

39. No one cares. Work harder.

40. Instead of giving your kids what you wish you had teach them things you wish you knew.

41. Keep a small circle. It's better to go narrow & deep than wide & shallow.

42. True wealth is about being physically & financially healthy while living in a household full of love.

That's it. Life's a game. Collect experience points, crush your enemies & explore. Hope these cheat codes help you in your journey.

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